Our teenage daughter attempted suicide. It was a wake-up call for me, and an outcry from her. In the days that followed, she found the courage to reveal something she had been carrying alone: she had been sexually abused — and trafficked — by a trusted neighbor.
Our world stopped. And then we got to work.
Our first priority was her. We found her a therapist. A psychiatrist. We pursued healing in every modality we could find — and through that search I discovered the emerging science around the gut-brain connection. How we feel isn't just in our head. It lives in our gut, our nervous system, the body that keeps score long after the mind tries to move on. That science became the foundation of everything I do today as a mental wellness coach.
Our daughter found her voice. She found her courage. She prosecuted her abusers — and we got justice.
What happened next took our breath away. Her therapist team, moved by her heart of gratitude, created a foundation to provide mental health therapy scholarships for those who could not otherwise afford access to care. Our daughter didn't just survive — she inspired something that is now helping others heal too.
I became a certified child safety advocate, providing training and awareness to help adults prevent, identify, and report child sexual abuse and trafficking. I created a podcast — *Secrets Are Not Safe* — because parents need to know: something like this can happen in your neighborhood, to someone you know and love.
The end to child sexual abuse should not depend solely on the courage of a child. We as adults have to do more to protect our children.
And now, our daughter has done something even more extraordinary. She is one of seven women — survivors, a detective, a therapist, a wife, and me — who have written a book telling this story from every angle. Coming later this year.